Saturday, July 17, 2004
So you are planning to marry “Mr. Wonderful,” is he?
All to often, theses days, woman (of all ages) are meeting and falling in love with men they don’t know more than six months or so. It’s not like the “good old days” when we married the person we went to school with and knew the families for many years.
There are too many sharpies out there with dark pasts that they don’t reveal.
What’s a woman to do? Well, she should get a background check on her beloved. A background check should include a criminal records search and a civil litigation search in all areas where the person has resided at a very minimum. Additional investigation is advisable to verify previous addresses, employment and schools attended as well as neighborhood checks to ascertain his reputation.
Unfortunately, when women are “in love” they tend to believe wholeheartedly in their suitor and trust him completely. They feel that they are betraying his love to even consider checking up on him; after all “I can tell by looking into his eyes that he is truthful in all things he says.”
Maybe he was married before and it failed because of spousal abuse.
Maybe he has one or more kids by marriage or not.
Maybe he had a history of passing bad check or worse.(felonies, jail time, etc.)
Maybe he has many judgments on him
No, not “Mr. Wonderful.”
Think about it!
Bob Taylor
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